Media personality, Bolanle Olukanni speaks on the importance of abstinence during a relationship as sex complicates things.
Media personality, Bolanle Olukanni takes to her social media account to outline the importance of abstinence speaks on how sex complicates things.
Bolanle, is known in Twitter as a supporter of abstinence on social media and often express her opinion about the role of sex in romantic relationships.
She opined that having sex can complicate relationships and make it very difficult view things clearly and make wise judgements.
She also said that sex should not be a casual act between couples, expressing her believe on how the real aim of the experience is to strengthen bond with the person you are madly in love with.
Bolanle also shared her own experience with abstinence, saying that it helps her make decisions in relationships more swiftly and rationally.
She wrote: “Sex complicates everything. You can’t see clearly and you can’t make decisions properly. It was created to bond you to a person. Convince yourself allll you want that it is just sex. It’s not and will never be.
“I make relationship decisions quick because my mind is clear. I can see the person for who they are early on in the relationship.
“Sex isn’t distracting us. It’s about conversation, how do they treat me, what’s their character. These are the things that last!
“I love myself too much to short change myself. And no one will ever convince me otherwise. With the wisdom of GotaGrid guidance of the Holy Spirit I know this the right way to do this.
“When I tell people that abstinence is way to go when you are getting to know someone. They think I’m crazy. It’s not me that will be deceived because of my hormones. Sweetie you ain’t in love you are just horny.”